What to Wear to Your Boudoir Session - A Client Guide
- LJ Jacobs

- Nov 22, 2024
- 5 min read
Hey babe!... wondering what the hell to wear to your boudoir session?
Relaaaax. I’ve got you, boo.
Let’s get this out of the way first:
The best outfit is the one that makes you feel powerful, sensual, and deeply YOU. There are no rules here. Only options. Only expression. Only permission.
And now… something new:
Introducing the Luscious Rebel Client Closet (XS–5XL)
For my Half-Day and Full-Day Luxe clients, you now get access to a curated wardrobe of:
• corsets
• leather & latex pieces
• sheer robes & kimonos
• vintage lingerie
• one-of-a-kind gothic glam pieces
• and items hand-selected to match the mood we create together
ALL sizes. ALL bodies. XS through 5XL.
When you book a Luxe experience, you get full styling support... I help you choose pieces, layer them with intention, and craft looks that honour your energy, archetype, and vision.
Mini Sessions do not include Closet access, but don’t worry... this guide will show you exactly how to bring your own magic and make your minis unforgettable.
Whether Luxe or Mini, YOU are the art.
This guide is simply here to spark your imagination.
Bring what feels right.
Bring what feels dangerous.
Bring what feels like coming home to yourself.
And ALWAYS feel free to bring personal items... your style, your story, your identity are not only welcome… they’re celebrated.
Let’s dive in.

1. Start With Your Confidence Staples
Pick the pieces that already make you feel sexy, grounded, or powerful.
This could be:
• your favourite lingerie set
• a leather jacket that makes you feel untouchable
• a perfectly tailored blazer or vest
• your softest robe
• a harness or chest piece
• or yes… your bare skin, babe
Confidence first. Aesthetic second.
2. Embrace Your Unique Style (Femme, Masc, Androgynous, Fluid — ALL welcome)
Your identity matters.
Your expression matters.
Fashion is just spellcrafting for the body.
Here’s some inspiration for whichever vibe fits (or combine them all):
Femme Vibes
Lace, silk, corsets, sheer robes, thigh-highs, sparkly gowns, vintage slips, heels, layered jewelry, gloves, soft textures, goddess energy.
Masculine Vibes
Tailored suits, button-ups, vests, suspenders, leather jackets, jeans, combat boots, bare chest with open shirt, ties, cufflinks, dapper accents, edge.
Androgynous / Fluid Vibes
Harnesses with trousers, blazers with nothing underneath, slouchy sweaters, oversized button-ups, monochrome looks, structured silhouettes mixed with soft textures.
There are no lanes here. Only freedom.

3. Don’t Box Yourself In
You’re allowed to mix worlds.
You’re allowed to channel all your identities in one session.
Corset + combat boots?
Tailored blazer + garter belt?
Lace bodysuit under a leather jacket?
YEEESSS.
Your contradictions are the masterpiece of your unique expression!
4. Bring Variety
Whether you’re stepping into a full transformative Luxe experience or dipping your toes into a bite-sized Mini, bringing variety lets us explore different layers of your expression.
But how that looks depends on the session you booked:
For Luxe Clients (Half-Day & Full-Day)
Your session is a whole journey, a cinematic unfolding... not a rushed photoshoot.
When you book a Luxe experience, you get:
✔ Full access to the Luscious Rebel Client Closet (XS–5XL)
✔ My personal styling expertise
✔ A curated wardrobe selected just for your energy, archetype, and session vision
We design your looks together.
We play.
We experiment.
We craft an entire visual story... not just outfits.
You’re absolutely encouraged to bring personal pieces that feel sacred, sensual, sentimental, or uniquely you.
Something inherited.
Something rebellious.
Something soft.
Something bold.
We blend your own items with closet pieces to create looks that feel like a full embodiment of who you’re becoming.
Think:
• lingerie + leather
• corset + sheer robe
• tailored blazer + garter belt
• vintage slip + combat boots
• latex + layered jewelry
• soft textures + hard edges
Bring 4–5 personal items you love, and we’ll mix and match them with my curated pieces to create multiple looks.
This is where you get the most creative expansion - and my styling guidance ensures you look and feel fucking incredible.
For Mini Sessions (30-Minute Micro Sessions)
Mini Sessions are fast, fiery, and intentionally time-limited ... a little tease into my world.
There is no Client Closet access for Minis.
You bring your own wardrobe + accessories, and you do your own hair and makeup.
But don’t worry! You can still create magic with what you bring.
In a Mini, we can fit:
2 strong looks for sure
-3 looks if you change quickly-(If you’re a wardrobe-switching ninja, hell yes, let’s go for three.)
The key is:
Bring outfits that are easy to slip on/off, layer, or transition from.
Mini-friendly ideas:
• a lingerie set + robe
• jeans + bra (or no bra)
• bodysuit + jacket
• harness over something simple
• oversized button-down + lingerie
• dramatic piece you can throw on fast (jacket, accessory, robe)
Think versatile pieces that shift the vibe instantly.
The quicker the change, the more variety we can create.
What to Pack (Luxe & Mini Inspiration)
• Lingerie (if not using the client closet)
• Everyday sexy (jeans, tanks, oversized tees)
• Dramatic statement pieces
• Corsets, latex, leather
• Vintage or sentimental clothing
• Jackets, robes, harnesses
• Layered accessories
And always...
• A wildcard piece that scares you a little...
Because fear creates GREAT art.
The pieces that intimidate you are often the ones that reveal the most powerful versions of you.
5. Accessorize With Intention
Accessories = instant elevation.
Try:
• layered necklaces
• bold earrings
• gloves (delicate or leather)
• thigh-high boots
• combat boots
• hats
• garters
• jewelry with meaning
• props tied to your story or identity
Small elements create a big emotional impact.
6. Think About the Energy You Want to Embody
Who are you becoming in this session?
Soft romantic fae?
Dark feminine goddess?
Powerful masculine protector?
Playful brat?
Shadow-self rising?
Tender creature shedding their skin?
Gender-bending Badass?
Your outfits should feed that energy.
7. Nudity is Always Welcome
If you want it.
Some of the most breathtaking, vulnerable, powerful images come from simplicity.
A sheet.
A robe slipping off the shoulder.
Skin in shadow.
Skin in light.
Whatever level of undressing feels aligned... we honour it.

8. Practical Tips for Session Day
Fit: avoid marks or too-tight bands
Colours: jewel tones, black, rich neutrals, deep reds, plums, metallics
Texture: lace, mesh, leather, silk, fur, velvet, etc - texture photographs beautifully
Personal touches: partner’s clothing, heirloom jewelry, something tied to your story
Comfort: bring clothes you can move in
Confidence: choose pieces that make you FEEL
9. The Golden Rule
Wear whatever the fuck makes you feel powerful, authentic, sensual, and entirely yourself!!
That is the magic.
That is the art.
That is where transformation happens.
I cannot wait to see what you bring.
Let’s create something unforgettable.
Love,LJ Jean xo








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